“Forget fixing my life, Fix My Self-Love Please!”

So I’m sitting here watching Iyanla’s “Fix my Life”, (a show I absolutely love btw); she’s featuring a guy that has 34 children and Lord if that’s not enough to get your attention I don’t know what is! As I sit here watching a few of the “baby’s mothers”, I can’t help but to resonate the fact that these women, these vessels who once had an identity, they once had a voice, they’re now all blended by one common interest…one common lack rather…SELF LOVE!! These women have all been tainted by false pretenses from a man that never learned how to love himself! So when do they draw the line?? The fact that some of them are STILL entertaining his foolery absolutely baffles my mind! Don’t get me wrong, everybody plays the fool, at least I know I have, but come on now you’re the 15th baby momma and your child is like the 30th kid!! Then you bring another child into this cycle of events! What tha what!! Come on ladies! Then one chick had the audacity to be mad at her friend for sleeping with him, so what does she do to get back at her? SHE GIVES HIM A KID!!smh Lord bless them!

Dear beautiful, intelligent, strong black women…there is no man in this world worth making you degrade yourself in that manner. You have to know who you are and what you stand for, showing what you will tolerate. Unfortunately people are not cars, we don’t come with a history fax lol (Not a bad idea honestly), but there are people out here dragging others along their “love line” with no idea of what a real connection consists of! So you have to guard your heart, your body and your mind because love is just a word if there’s no action to back it. And if you learn to love yourself above all else, it lessens your chances of being hurt by someone who’s never known it…-BiancaLynnette


About L.Y.F.E.chat "Love Yourself First Everyday!"

BiancaLynnette is a God fearing wife, mother of 5, Motivational Lyfe Coach & writer pushing and inspiring others to believe in themselves. L.Y.F.E. stands for Love Yourself First Everyday; this site was created to remind all of the beautiful people in the world of how important it Is to love YOU! As a busy mom of 5 I know how easy it is to get lost in the shuffle of life and how vital it is to encourage yourself! So I welcome you to join my everyday journey of LYFE! Where Loving yourself first is not just a statement, it's a LYFESTYLE!
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